With hard-working people being laid-off from their jobs left and right, those whose jobs have remained in tact may start to feel some effects of survivor’s guilt. Every single day people are losing their jobs or worrying about losing their jobs; unfortunately it has become the “American Way” of the era. There are countless resources for the jobless or soon-to-be unemployed to turn to, but what about those who have not been left without a job?
Many who have been laid off may turn against their employed neighbors, friends, family members, and spouses, feeling as if there is no way for them to understand the stress and helpless that comes with being unemployed. The employed may then even start to feel guilty for their success, hard work, good luck, or whatever else they may feel has caused their job security. They might be asking “Why did he or she lose their job while I kept mine? Am I expected to be working twice as hard now? Should I be putting in more hours and working through weekends and vacations? Should I double my donations to charity, since no one else can afford it? Should I offer more support to others, even outside of my family? What do I do with this new role as breadwinner, not just for my family, but for my country?” However, at a time when there is enough stress and ill-feeling going around the country, there is simply no room for the guilt of the thriving.
If you have been able to remain secure at your place of employment, do not feel guilty. It is not your sole burden to support the un-working world, to carry hard-hit charities, or to diminish your own skills and success. You should be proud of what you have accomplished, relieved at your stability, and active in supporting your community. Continue on the path that has led to your success and stability, but do not live above your means. Yes, continue to donate your time and money to charity, but do not increase your efforts above what you are comfortable capable of out of remorse.
We here at Five Point Capital know that the world needs strong, stead-fast, good-hearted people, not those crippled with survivor’s guilt. This economy is no time for showing off, bragging, or lavish spending, but it is also not the time for guilt or unwise spending. Do your part for your community, but remember to keep your head held high and your work ethic strong. The rest will soon follow.